Sunday, November 27, 2011

Sunday Weight Loss Update... or, not so much.

I didn't lose any weight this week.

I thought about lying about it, saying I lost a pound and then just try to make up for it in the coming week. But, well... I'm too much of a wuss for that. If I lied, then this whole being accountable by reporting my progress each Sunday would all be a big, total splat.

So there.

I didn't lose a single pound.

Though I COULD blame the holiday and the cheesecake and chocolate cake and pumpkin pie and birthday cake that ALL HAPPENED THIS WEEK, I won't. I'm the one who made the decision to eat those things. They were all delicious. They weren't all worth it, though. The cheesecake was worth it, but that's it.

I kept up my workouts, because I kind of always do.

I read an interesting article about working out and weight loss last year. Let me see if I can find it. Here it is, if you feel like reading it. It's also okay if you don't.

What it says is that exercise alone won't make you thin.

I think this is a totally spot on claim.

While the article talks about how people who work out often feel like they can spare the extra calories and have a mocha, or whatever... it also talks about how we, as a society, have overblown the effectiveness of exercise in getting thin, and have undervalued it as an important way for everyone to be healthy.

Everybody should exercise, whether you're thin or fat. It's important for everybody for SO many reasons. We all know what they are.

In order to lose weight, though, dietary changes are way more effective, if you just look at the task logically. When you exercise on top of making dietary changes, you're giving yourself a weight loss edge and making yourself more healthy. They're both important, just not necessarily in the ways we are told.

Just for example, lets say you weigh 300 pounds and you eat 3000 calories per day.

So then, you start working out. Say you walk or use the elliptical for 30 minutes each and every day. It's fair to estimate that you'd burn about 300 calories every day during your workouts.

That's 300 calories more than you were burning before, so now, your intake is more like 2700 calories per day, instead of 3000, if you don't change anything about your diet.

So, you'll lose a little bit of weight. 300 calories per day's worth of weight.

What if you changed your diet and started eating 2000 calories per day, which would be a totally healthy amount. And let's say that you exercised 30 minutes per day, also. That would be a deficit of 1300 calories (compared to the 3000 you were taking in before), and you'll lose a whole lot of weight.

If you only made dietary changes and chose not to work out, you would lose a lot of weight, but still feel like shit. You would lose a lot of weight, but possibly not be healthy.

I don't know.

Does that make sense?

I feel like it has totally been true for me.

Without torturing myself at all, I exercise at least 30 minutes a day. Within the first year of beginning to work out, I lost about 20 pounds. If I go through a time where I don't work out as much, my weight starts creeping up. Unless I'm prepared to exercise for HOURS every day, exercising alone will not make me thin.

Are you the same way? I feel like I don't have to focus on working out at all. I just do it. I feel great when I'm doing it. I love being tough and sweaty and worn out. I feel shitty and achy and stiff and stressed out when I skip a few days of exercising. I totally believe in the importance of working out.

But, I also totally get that losing weight is at least 90% about my diet.

I eat too much volume, and I waste calories on sugar.

If I start to think about how much I exercise, it's really easy to feel like I'm putting in a lot of work, and I should be getting thinner by the second. That's just not how it's going to work, though. Buckling down, for me, is all about eating. I have to focus and be mindful all the time to avoid a totally haphazard intake of food.


I don't know for sure if I feel like I've let myself down this week. Maybe it's because I felt like eating too much was inevitable over Thanksgiving. Maybe it's because our schedule was thrown off and everything was out of control and I just went with it.

Whatever.
I'll do better this week and have something good to report next Sunday.
I promise.

PS. I hope you all had a wonderful holiday!

8 comments:

  1. Be gentle with yourself. It was Thanksgiving and you are mindful. I have the same problem. I love/need/crave/demand my long daily hike but I can not put wine and cheese in the special treat department. I tell myself I'm like a Parisian and I just hiked for an hour...NOM NOM NOM. Anyway what helped me is reframing "the treat". I spent $5 on pickled ginger today. Zero calories but a total indulgence that I will be the only one who enjoys. I usually shop "smart" and for the whole family, then end up snacking on mac and cheese. In the past I have bought, gourmet vinegar, special mustard and fancy pickled peppers. Treats to me. Can you tell I have a vinegar problem?

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  2. I totally want you to be gentle on yourself too. I can't remember if I told you that I was very eating disordered in my teens and 20s, and did a lot of work around my eating because I was (still am) a complete failure (and not sorry to tell you that) when it comes to dieting.

    I have always gained weight when I dieted.

    When I stopped trying to diet, stopped trying to lose weight, and really started to deal with the emotions that I was not feeling when I was stuffing things down, the weight came off.

    I am not fashion model skinny, but neither am I fat. My doctor does not worry about me and, aside from my three pregnancies my weight has been steady at 160 lbs (I'm 5'5) for the past 20 years.

    I eat what I crave, but I know the difference between craving something because I am having feelings, because I just want something decadent, and because it is good for me. Over time it has become easier to regulate the things that aren't particularly healthy because they no longer fill needs that are not nutritional.

    I don't know how much sense this makes.

    I also can't remember if I told you about a book that really changed things for me, it was written in the '70s (I think) but I read it in the '90s and it was relevant to me then. It is Fat is a Feminist Issue by Suze Orbach.

    Mostly I want you to remember that if you kick yourself for failing, you might feel driven to comfort yourself using food, thus creating that vicious cycle. So. Be gentle with yourself and know that so many of us out here in CPUland cherish you so very very much. <3

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  3. Thank you so much for these comments, girls. I am totally not beating myself up for this week. I sort of went in to it thinking that it would be a sucky week because of Thanksgiving and PMS. So, whatever.

    I do totally need to frame treats as treats! If there is sugar in my life, it will be eaten. I'm so torn about baking Christmas cookies. Part of me wants to make a bunch of different kinds, but I also know that I'll pack them away. So, maybe we'll just make some icing intensive ones to get the fun, without the millions of cookies.

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  4. Karen, thank you for sharing your struggles with me. I have not read that book, but I am familiar with the concept and I totally agree. That's why I'm trying to frame my efforts to lose weight in the context of - I don't hate myself because I'm fat. I just want to feel awesome.

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  5. "I don't hate myself because I'm fat. I just want to feel awesome."
    I totally need to print that out and put it on my mirror.
    Found you through NaBloPoMo and wanted to share some love with the Liebster Award.

    http://educational-anarchy.blogspot.com/2011/11/showing-some-love.html

    Thanks so much for being who you are and for sharing that.

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  6. this is my favorite website on this subject: http://www.medicinalmarzipan.com/

    this is very near and dear to me....my problem is that i can 1)work or 2)work out, cook healthfully, write more than rambling blog posts, sew, be creative and social, etc... i have not mastered the art of doingeverything. lately it truly grieves me.

    however, i echo the others...be gentle with yourself...have grace on yourself. maybe your body needs to rest this week, and you can love yourself by resting. marinate in love...your family, your work, your writing, your etsy shop, your world...love of course is the most healing thing.

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  7. I've been really struggling with this. I told myself I was doing better, but in reality, I gave myself excuses to eat everytime I got stressed out (and... having an anxiety disorder that is relatively often). So, even if I ate a healthy dinner, I probably went back and ate and equally unhealthy dessert/snack later. A few days ago I had to just cut it out, all of it. I don't think there was any other way to stop the compulsive (bad) eating, so I'm just not putting junky stuff in my system for awhile. (Christmas is the big ol' exception. I reserve the right to celebrate with my family :)).

    I know I need to lose the weight, but what I really want to get out of this is being healthy. The food I was eating was making me actually physically ill (it took a few weeks, but I realized that the awful nausea I was feeling happened everytime I ate something high in fat/sugar). I just want to feel better.

    Okay, that was a big spiel... but all I'm saying is... I'm with you!

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  8. Steph, I'm so glad you found me! Thank you again for the award. :)

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